What do your children do when they have “free time” or in their “spare time”? On my posting yesterday, I wrote about the dangers of television and electronic games. Meanwhile, the electronic games take the biggest share of habits for children around the world. How do parents manage the playing time? What non electronic games do you use?
We live in a city, so we have only a few number of park to walk and to spend time nearby. It takes 15 minutes driving through crowded and hot roads to go to the park. Therefore, most children living in the city spend their spare time in front of the television or electronic games. I am very concerned about this as this habit might lead into some negative impacts.
Don't think that I hate television and electronic games. Playing games and watching Korean dramas are my hobbies. I introduced electronic games and television programs to my children also. However, I would not make them addicted to these modern virtual entertainments.
Managing Playing Time
The best way for parents in controlling their access to television and electronic games like aare:
- Watch and play with the children. Parents need to get involved in the television program choice and the electronic games they play.
- Manage the timing each time the children play. Watching and playing twice, each for 30 minutes will be much better rather than 1 hour at once. Using timer will be a fair way to manage their time.
- Arrange watching and playing schedules for each child. The schedule for each family will be different.
My children have 30 minutes for watching a cartoon and 30 minutes for watching documentaries (if they want) daily. They only can do computer works during weekdays, but they have @30 minutes play games on Fridays, @45 minutes play games on Saturdays, and 2 times 30 minutes play games on Sundays. When they break the rules, no game or TV on the next session.
They like playing Facebook games. Of course, I set their privacy just for them only and I have their passwords so I can check them regularly. I know what they are playing. Sometimes we discuss their levels in the games.
Non Electronic Games
On the weekdays, children can choose any of these non-electronic games as options for their playing time:
There are some kinds of constructing toys. One of the most popular one is Lego. My sons have loved Lego since they were toddlers. Our Lego set has been 9 years old, but even Ken (11yo) and Tom 10(yo) still like it a lot. Although it is very simple, they can play for hours.
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There are various board games. Here are some board games we like:
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Puzzle is very good to train concentration and to get cooperation among players. It will train our logic too.
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Playing scooter will accommodate the need of local mobile of the boys. They sometimes playing delivery or racing with the scooter. When they are in a good mood, they will make moving style.
Bey blade – Tops
It is the modern-day version of tops battle based on a manga or Japanese comic. It needs a launcher and an arena to play and also the tops
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There are some kinds of cards to play. Trading cards have a lot of kinds based on the theme. Poker cards have a lot of various games to play since a long time ago. A parental guidance is needed to play with cards since it might lead them into gambling
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Cycling around will help the boys get acquainted with his environment and his neighborhood. They also will fulfill the need of moving or train their physics.
Stacking games will really train the concentration and patience of game participants. You can play as a whole family or individually. There are ranges of stacking games. Here are some alternatives:
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Simple cooking will train kids in measurement skills of Mathematics. It will also increase the motor skills, reading instructions, and tasting sense. This activity will build more joy incorporation between participants. Here are some cook book you might want to check out:
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Here is a great site for Traditional Indonesian Children's Games
A little sports
A simple dribble will have tremendous meaning and benefits. Basketball, hide and seek, balancing, skipping rope will give children more fun.
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Drawing, painting, singing, dancing, photography are a very few kinds of Arts to fill the days.
Playing musical instrument
Musical instruments will give more enjoyable activities for children, with plenty other benefits.
People might say these things are boring, but I would say that this game will build up children intelligent. Doing maze, crossword, word search, sudoku
Playing bingo can be used for many different kinds of purpose or themes.
Pretending is considered as a very childish imaginative play. I don't know that my 11 years old boy still like playing pretending with his brothers and cousins. They just become very close when they play pretending.
Robots or dolls
They are very old toys in the world through different kinds of types in many different ages.
My sons like playing hot wheels as it has a lot of kinds of constructions. It is the modern-day version of just a toy car
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Science experiment will get children busy with their inquiry.
Bakugan is a rounded ball that will pop out when the magnet is attached to a metal cards. I don't really understand with the games, but there is some counting and reading instruction skills needed. Here is the link to the site.
What non electronic games or toys that you like or that your children use to play?
How do you manage kids' playing time?